I went around like that for nearly ten years trying to write my book. Since I was planning on self-publishing, I could take all the time in the world, and there was no end in sight. But something changed all that.
Just over a year ago, my mother passed away suddenly, and I had to fly back to England for the funeral. At the service, I remember thinking – that could be me in the coffin. None of us know how long we really have. I thought – what would I be leaving behind, what legacy other than my children? Then I recalled the words of Wayne Dyer from one of his inspiring talks, “Don’t die with your music still in you.” I imagined departing from this earth with my book remaining unpublished on my computer.
That did it! After flying back home from the funeral, I asked my son to help me set deadlines for my book and to hold me accountable for it. We decided I would revise a chapter a week and submit it to him by noon each Friday. It worked! I discovered that while I wasn’t good at setting myself deadlines, once deadlines were set, I was great at keeping to them. This way I quickly got my book ready to send to an editor.
However, after the book was edited, I found myself drifting aimlessly again. Now I had all the time in the world to publish it. I carried on like that until the start of the new year. Suddenly one morning, I woke up thinking of something I read, how dreams are just a goal with a deadline. There and then, I imposed a deadline on myself!
Although I had no idea whether I could do it by then, and it was scary to put it out there, I made a commitment. I announced on my author Facebook page that I would publish my book on my birthday.
Well, today is my birthday and I am ahead of that schedule. My ebook is published and my paperback is about to follow.
The writer who hated deadlines now understands the power and magic of them!